"As a healer, you need to first heal yourself. Learn the lessons you’ve been putting off or have been hypocritical about. Turn your ego into a creature who supplicates itself to a higher authority, surrendering it’s autonomy in the name of greater potential through alignment with the Whole. Integrate what you learn through meditation and plant medicines into your being so that you become a walking embodiment of those truths. From this space, you are able to practice true charity by seeing the person seeking healing as already healed in the same way you have proven possible through who you’ve become.
Holding space then means holding yourself in the space of remembrance of Who You Are, so as to be an example to the person on the journey; a lighthouse showing the way. All you need to do is remember and trust in the fact that you have it within you to practice true charity towards others, there is an advanced intelligence that is holding the truth of your own inevitable return to perfection in mind. An innocent trust in a powerful and capable well-wisher. Faith, love, remembrance..."
- Trevor Millar
A POTENT TOOL FOR YOU!
To all my Dear Sisters,
(Note: this message is geared towards women, but can be applied to all men as well!)
I write you today with an offering for energetic and sexual freedom. My work in the most recent months has brought me to the extreme awareness of the powerful presence of energetic cords, in specific, sexual cords. When we make love or have sex with another, especially a man who penetrates us, we create a powerful bond, an energetic cord. These cords remain with us for up to 7 years after ceasing intercourse with this person, and sometimes longer. Living our lives with energetic cords to another can be wonderful when we are walking in bonded path with that person, but if our cycle with a lover is complete, having a cord remaining can be draining us of our energy, and impacting our thoughts and emotions without even knowing it. We can be feeling feelings and thinking thoughts that aren't ours, taking on others' baggage and bad luck, and be impacted in a variety of other ways. These cords are subtle energies, but can have a very powerful effect on the overall clarity in our autonomy and lives. Especially as women, who operate emotionally, feel deeply, and are attuned and receptive to the subtle frequencies, it is important to be aware of these cords and connections.
It is my understanding that sex is one of the most powerful and sacred forms of magic and connection, and therefore important to understand the bonds we create and the affects of these energetic connections. As we awaken more into our sexual and spiritual empowerment, the natural tendency is to become more discerning of who we allow into our temples, and who we chose to create this alchemy with. But naturally, we all have walked a long road of experimentation and learning to get to the stage of sexual empowerment and self respect. So what of all those cords we created in the past that may not be serving us any more? How do we clear them?
The common "ritual" for this is referred to as cord cutting. We hear many people say they have done cord cutting ceremonies for past lovers, to sever the bonds made. In my experience, cord cutting is an inaccurate and inefficient way to shift this bond. If you visualize the cord between yourself and a lover as a plant, or vine, full of life and symbiosis, what happens when you cut it? It withers and dies. This is a violent and abrupt action that leaves a severed and wilting, rotting half of a cord- still firmly planted in you, but with nothing connected to the other end to close the circuit. This creates a gaping ENERGETIC LEAK, which leaves you open to other energies getting in and create a whole new set of problems. The same goes for the other half or the cord planted in your ex-lover.
I have found a much more gentle, efficient, and clear way to shift these cords. It is a CORD TRANSPLANTING ritual. Again, visualizing the cords as plants, or vines, and taking them out from the root, still fully alive and in tact, to be transplanted back to the other. If you are able to do this together as a form of closure with a lover, wonderful. it is as simple as agreeing together and visualizing yourselves uprooting these cords from your sacral and heart chakras, and planting them back into the sacral and heart chakra of the other. (see following mediation for details). For many of us, this may not be possible, as we are no longer in contact with those past lovers. So i have channeled a mediation to transplant these cords to the garden of our higher selves, where unconditional love is in overflowing abundance.
I would like to offer you the invitation and the tools to take the time to push the energetic "reset" button on your sacral energy and your sexuality, and remove all cords that you no longer wish to carry!!
Be aware that choosing to do this ritual does not mean removing the memory, honor, or experience of this past partner from your life. You will not lose anything you wish to keep, and this will not change any heart connection or friendship. In my experience, if anything, it had made the connections more clear, and stronger, because the old energies of sexual connection and attachment are shifted. This ritual simply brings energetic autonomy and the ability to move forward in our sexual experiences with clarity and wholeness.
***Note: Women, you may also use the powerful magic of your menstruation cycles to clear residual energies in your womb from cords of intimate experiences. Simply set the intention at the start of your moon to use the cycle and the blood to clear the physical and energetic remnants of transplanted cords or past lovers from your temple. Be sure to offer your blood to the earth so it may be received and transmuted.
**Note: Men, you may do this mediation as well, just use your sacral chakra and root chakra as the locations for the roots of the cords. Generally women carry these cords deeper and longer than men, but it is beneficial and powerful to shift this for yourself as well. Often time the cords are only found in the heart for men.
May this technique bring you energetic and physical freedom from all energies that are not yours and do not serve your highest empowerment in spiritual sexuality. Take what resonates, and know this is one way of many… BlesSINGS,
P.S. I would be overjoyed to hear feedback of your experiences, observations, or questions after doing this ritual!
CORD TRANSPLANTING MEDITATION:
Find a comfortable position, either seated or laying down flat on your back. Take a few minutes to become fully relaxed in your entire body. Tune in with your breath, with the energy of the earth supporting you. With each breath, feel yourself becoming more and more relaxed, more peaceful, more present. Now start to focus your breath and your attention on you sacral chakra, and your womb. Visualize yourself entering inside your womb cave. Feel it's warmth, its darkness, and it safety. See the walls of your womb as beds of dark, rich soil. In this soil, you start to see the cords of your past lovers as vines. They are rooted into the walls of your womb, and extend outward beyond your body and energetic body, connecting all the way to your ex-lover. You may see one cord, or many. Notice the color or energy each of these cords possess. Feel their vibration and presence within you. Honor and acknowledge the cords and the lovers they are connected to, thanking them for the teachings and experiences. Allow yourself to experience and feel any emotion that may arise as you witness and feel these cords. Spend a few minutes here with these cords.
Now extend your consciousness back up to your heart. Take a breath here, then expand even further, out the top of your crown and out of your body. Visualize yourself rising up above the earth, through the galaxy, and into the heavenly realms. Keep rising higher and higher until you reach the plane of Unconditional Love. This is the 7th plane, where our higher selves reside. It is filled with a vibrant light opalescent energy. In this place, visualize your higher self. Let it take any form that resonates with you. Visualize your higher self walking through a vibrant, abundant garden. This is your heart garden of unconditional love. It is filled with plants, flowers, water, animals, and anything else you wish to put in it. In this garden are many empty beds, filled with rich and fertile soil, waiting for new plants to be planted. Spend some time here, getting to know your heart garden, and enjoying its abundance and beauty. Once you see this clearly in your mind's eye, return your consciousness back to your body, and back down into your womb (your sacral chakra).
Now it is as simple as taking any chords you no longer wish to be in your womb temple, and transplanting them into these empty garden beds in your heart garden.
Visualize yourself once more inside your womb. Again, tune in to the cords, or vines, planted in the soil of your womb garden. With great care and gentleness, dig into the soil of your womb walls, and dig up the roots of these cords. You may do one at a time, or gather many at once. Once you have the roots in your palms, take a moment to send gratitude, honor, and love to the lovers these cords are connected to. Thank them for the experiences and exchanges. With the cord(s) in your hands, return your consciousness all the way back up to your heart garden in the plane of unconditional love. Gently plant the roots of these cords into the fresh and fertile soil of the empty beds. Tuck them in with fresh water and a prayer for nurturance and support. when you have finished transplanting all the cords, take a bit of the fertile soil from your heart garden, bring it back down to your womb (sacral Chakra), and fill in the empty spaces of your womb garden with this soil, so all gaps may be sealed an filled.
Breathe deep into your womb and feel the sensation of wholeness and freedom. Relish in your energetic and physical autonomy and completion. Rest in the knowing that these cords of your past lovers are fully nurtured and provided for by the abundant source of unconditional love and your higher self, without draining your energy in the physical. Know you may visit these cords (vines) in your heart garden at any time and give them water, energy, and attention, from a place of unconditional love and overflowing, abundant energy.
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